people always expect me to adapt to them, never the other way around.
i currently closed one of my social media acc because after doing a mistake i felt uncomfortable being there, and also because i'm kinda overwhelmed with people demands nowadays. i warned my friend on another app we have in common, and first after telling her my stress she didn't seem really invested in listening to me.
but then she said "oh put back the app i have stuff to send you there" she totally erased the fact i don't feel at ease going there, and... she literally can send me the stuff on the app we are talking on? so i told her send me this here she never replied.
but why do i have to adapt to her needs while it doesn't change anything where is it sent, it's just a whim, when i need a safe zone which it's more important?? why am i the one that always have to sacrifice?
it's like i would beg her to out her private acc in public like? she wouldn't like being pressured on her safety choices.
the same way last time i told my friend i was in a burn out because i worked everyday of the week from monday to sunday, so i couldn't be available as usual, and she still tried to impose a phone call to talk to me about shopping, girl did you even listen to my struggling?
